Monday, June 10, 2013

Puji anak

Jumpa ni kat fb Genius Aulad..

Nak tepek kat sini utk rujukan di masa2 akan datang.. ;)

Saya sgt tidak suka bila budak dikondem secara depan2, apatah lagi anak sy sendiri, oleh org lain..!!

Sedaya upaya sy n suami x akan pernah mengutuk, merendahkan anak atau kritik dia secara depan2 sbb itu sgt tidak bagus utk EQ development dia..

Contoh :

Ni salah ni, lukis ikan bukan macam ni, apalah kakak ni...

Kakak x pandai main, asyik nak nangis je, tgk adik ni baik je...


Dari tadi lagi tulis huruf A tu tak siap2, bila nak sampai huruf B ni..


For me,

its rude

too rude

I'll confront you if u ever tell things like that to my kids..!

Apa yg kita cakap kpd anak2 akan diserap oleh sub conscious mind dia.. n sedikit sebanyak boleh mempengaruhi keperibadian dia...

Usah kata budak, saya yg dewasa ini pun, jika sentiasa dicari kesalahan, sentiasa diawasi dan dikomplen, juga rasa fobia dan mula pandai membuat helah..

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Okayla, berbalik pada sharing tadi..

50 WAYS TO PRAISE YOUR CHILD
(Begins with praising Allah swt.) 

1. I like the way you... 

2. I admired the way you... 

3. Do you know how important you are to me? 

4. I could really see how much you were trying 

5. It’s fun playing with you

6. I care so much about you

7. I feel so proud of you when you...

8. You really showed how talented you are when you...

9. I am so excited that you...

10. You can really feel proud of yourself because ...

11. You’re a real winner!

12. You are a real friend - look at how you...

13. That’s amazing! Well done!

14. I love you because...

15. I trust you to...

16. You are a real joy

17. You are a real good friend

18. Congratulations on the way you...

19. Thank you for...

20. I can see how hard you worked on that - well done!

21. You have a lovely singing voice

22. I can really see that you are improving

23. You are precious

24. You are so important

25. You are unique

26. What an imagination!

27. You are so caring

28. You make me smile

29. You have a special talent for...

30. You have a brilliant smile

31. You are so clever

32. You are so creative

33. That’s fantastic - look at how you made...

34. I love being with you

35. You are a star!

36. You look fantastic today

37. You look great in that

38. You are really brilliant

39. You’re beautiful

40. Wow that is fantastic

41. You are so special

42. That is excellent

43. That is really great

44. Well Done

45. I knew you could do it

46. You are a real super star

47. You are really smart

48. That is magnificent

49. You are Spectacular

50. Well done you!

Take action today, praise, praise, praise and watch your child blossom and grow in happiness.

Alhamdulillah. Remember to praise Allah swt as you're praising our children!



Sumber : FB Genius Aulad


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If a child lives with PRAISE, he learns to APPRECIATE..

If a child lives with CRITICISM, he learns to CONDEMN..

Full poem HERE

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