Nak tepek kat sini utk rujukan di masa2 akan datang.. ;)
Saya sgt tidak suka bila budak dikondem secara depan2, apatah lagi anak sy sendiri, oleh org lain..!!
Sedaya upaya sy n suami x akan pernah mengutuk, merendahkan anak atau kritik dia secara depan2 sbb itu sgt tidak bagus utk EQ development dia..
Ni salah ni, lukis ikan bukan macam ni, apalah kakak ni...
Kakak x pandai main, asyik nak nangis je, tgk adik ni baik je...
Dari tadi lagi tulis huruf A tu tak siap2, bila nak sampai huruf B ni..
I'll confront you if u ever tell things like that to my kids..!
Apa yg kita cakap kpd anak2 akan diserap oleh sub conscious mind dia.. n sedikit sebanyak boleh mempengaruhi keperibadian dia...
Usah kata budak, saya yg dewasa ini pun, jika sentiasa dicari kesalahan, sentiasa diawasi dan dikomplen, juga rasa fobia dan mula pandai membuat helah..
Okayla, berbalik pada sharing tadi..
50 WAYS TO PRAISE YOUR CHILD
(Begins with praising Allah swt.)
1. I like the way you...
2. I admired the way you...
3. Do you know how important you are to me?
4. I could really see how much you were trying
5. It’s fun playing with you
6. I care so much about you
7. I feel so proud of you when you...
8. You really showed how talented you are when you...
9. I am so excited that you...
10. You can really feel proud of yourself because ...
11. You’re a real winner!
12. You are a real friend - look at how you...
13. That’s amazing! Well done!
14. I love you because...
15. I trust you to...
16. You are a real joy
17. You are a real good friend
18. Congratulations on the way you...
19. Thank you for...
20. I can see how hard you worked on that - well done!
21. You have a lovely singing voice
22. I can really see that you are improving
23. You are precious
24. You are so important
25. You are unique
26. What an imagination!
27. You are so caring
28. You make me smile
29. You have a special talent for...
30. You have a brilliant smile
31. You are so clever
32. You are so creative
33. That’s fantastic - look at how you made...
34. I love being with you
35. You are a star!
36. You look fantastic today
37. You look great in that
38. You are really brilliant
39. You’re beautiful
40. Wow that is fantastic
41. You are so special
42. That is excellent
43. That is really great
44. Well Done
45. I knew you could do it
46. You are a real super star
47. You are really smart
48. That is magnificent
49. You are Spectacular
50. Well done you!
Take action today, praise, praise, praise and watch your child blossom and grow in happiness.
Alhamdulillah. Remember to praise Allah swt as you're praising our children!
Sumber : FB Genius Aulad
If a child lives with PRAISE, he learns to APPRECIATE..
If a child lives with CRITICISM, he learns to CONDEMN..
Full poem HERE